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01/03/14

The Desire to Own


So are the ways
of everyone who is greedy for gain; it takes away the life of its owners.
(Proverbs 1:19)
What
is it that makes us want to own
things? Or maybe it’s just me! But I see something pretty in a store and
something in me desires to own it, even if it’s not anything I need or have a
place for. Of course, I generally talk myself out of buying the item with
little or no effort. I’m not a compulsive shopper, so to speak, but there is
something in me that desires to take into my possession that which pleases me.
I
don’t think I’m talking out of turn here. The Bible has a name for this “crave
to own.” It’s greed.
Unfortunately,
greed is a sin which, like all sin, can lead to our ruin. And we don’t just get
greedy for things like purses and shoes and cars and jewelry. We can also
desire to “own” accomplishments, titles, positions, or even a person.
Proverbs
1:19 teaches us that when we set out to own things, no matter what they might
be, we tend to grab hold, manipulate matters, get worked up and hurt other
people.
Our
desire to gain causes us to lose instead.
We
lose perspective, lose our dignity, lose our sense of right and wrong, lose
those who love us, lose self-control, lose our life.
And
yet, it’s difficult to hold life with wide open hands, generous and unaffected
by greed. Our human nature wants to hold on, cling tight, pull close, and put
our stamp on that which we claim. But our God calls us to let go, set free,
make no claim, claim no rights, and rest in Him instead.
The good news, as unimaginable as it may be, is that when we let go, God rewards our release. And He can be trusted to give us exactly what we need if only we will rest in Him. It’s ok to let go. Really it is. Hard sometimes, but ok. Good even. 
So open your hands, your heart, your mind. Slowly, oh so slowly, open…open…open. Let go. And live.

We can be greedy
for more than material possessions, and that greed will be the death of us if
we let it go unaddressed, unconfessed, and unbridled. What have you been
holding tight that you need to let go of?

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  1. Heart Of My Home says

    January 3, 2014 at 1:21 pm

    Stuff…it's amazing wanting or needing stuff that takes up so much space and energy. I continue to feed that monster and it needs to STOP, even while I'm resting in the loving arms of my heavenly Father each and everyday. My plan is to seek His approval before I impulsively grab the next thing that will compete with Jesus. In my life to comes down to idols: food, crafts, ebooks, projects that have never started or never finished. I need to hear from my Father before I make another move toward anything that will cause my greed, which is alive and well. Bummer. But, for this I have JESUS!

    Make it a great day,
    Catherine in San Diego County

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